tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9179910361309444095.post2070649868576880875..comments2023-05-06T07:25:22.066-07:00Comments on Single Girl in a Weird World: Vs.Flaming_starhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05086586077318735281noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9179910361309444095.post-41837140846662593112011-02-15T19:51:19.059-08:002011-02-15T19:51:19.059-08:00Udara, I've decided to be a lurker on some sit...Udara, I've decided to be a lurker on some sites now too. Some I've decided not to even lurk at. I wish you could a variation on ideas but that never happens b/c you're right if you don't fall in line you are attacked and swiftly and viciously on some of them. One of my favorites blogs I decided not comment on a regular basis anymore b/c I'm just tired of all the groupthink it's never inviting to me. I don't want to be part of the black Stepford wives it's just not appealing.Flaming_starhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05086586077318735281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9179910361309444095.post-88401639812496212212011-02-15T18:03:07.253-08:002011-02-15T18:03:07.253-08:00Thank you for this post. I used to read some of t...Thank you for this post. I used to read some of them b/c it made me happy to find a community of black women supporting each other. But you hit it right on the head that you can't seem to have a differing opinion. God help you if you do b/c they will descend like a swarm of angry bees on the poor soul. I usually lurk but I had to comment on this one, I love your blog btw.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9179910361309444095.post-33600554861936753112011-02-12T18:02:16.329-08:002011-02-12T18:02:16.329-08:00Elaine that's it, I just like seeing happy bla...Elaine that's it, I just like seeing happy black women, at this point with a man, without a man, however you got the man, traveling, staying at home, whateva. I just dislike rules b/c they can't apply to everybody especially when it comes to life. I just like something positive and if my advice helps somebody great, if it don't apply I'm not gonna cram it down your throat forcing it to apply. Yes, I've had to extract myself from some spots, the lunacy was making me a little crazy. LOL.Flaming_starhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05086586077318735281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9179910361309444095.post-19867430904852783892011-02-12T17:32:55.280-08:002011-02-12T17:32:55.280-08:00This post is spot on. I am getting too old and tir...This post is spot on. I am getting too old and tired for drama. I just like seeing black women being happy and successful, however they got to that point (be it with a black/white/latino/asian man, traveling abroad, amazing career, etc.). On most BWE sites, they do too much bashing and preaching, which overshadows all the uplifting qualities these sites may possess.UNKNOWNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13413366606051037257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9179910361309444095.post-46510971361817423842011-02-09T14:14:30.733-08:002011-02-09T14:14:30.733-08:00I don't use much either but then again I been ...I don't use much either but then again I been dating/mating IR for 20 years, don't need much help in that area. But like you I like BBW b/c of her practical advice, I'm loving the new beauty and health segments. <br /><br />But you know I try to support women who have a positive outcome in an IR relationship, like your blog. I like b/c I don't know any blak people in Sweden so you give me some inside scoop. And although you don't exclusively talk about your husband and family I like when people do, I like when they show them off. Even if I wasn't getting married I'd like. I like good positive images of real black women, in a good IR marriage or LTR. It gives women hope, even if they didn't use all the 'rules' to get into it. I know lots of blogs like those and they don't get much support, just the ones with all the drama and I'm tired of drama for drama's sake. It's not pushing anyone forward so it's waste to me.Flaming_starhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05086586077318735281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9179910361309444095.post-26579597867887912842011-02-09T04:06:40.845-08:002011-02-09T04:06:40.845-08:00I haven't actually used anything I read on the...I haven't actually used anything I read on the BWE blogs. Well I did try Christelyns Yoga. But that's about it.<br /><br />I just read them for fun. I don't really talk much with black people unless I'm in South Africa. That is partly why I like reading these blogs :)<br /><br />Lol interracial snobbery.. Well I can see that from some people.Nkosazanahttps://southafricangirlinsweden.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.com