tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9179910361309444095.post7291489057836852523..comments2023-05-06T07:25:22.066-07:00Comments on Single Girl in a Weird World: Do Not Interracially Date Someone that HatesFlaming_starhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05086586077318735281noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9179910361309444095.post-88924415472706193432011-08-22T19:17:37.648-07:002011-08-22T19:17:37.648-07:00Oh Alee, I can rant too. I know a rant and I can u...Oh Alee, I can rant too. I know a rant and I can understand ppl's frustration at situations and ppl. But I can distinguish between a rant and just plain crazy, they don't sound anything alike, they are discernible.Flaming_starhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05086586077318735281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9179910361309444095.post-8418513043608049592011-08-22T18:13:00.759-07:002011-08-22T18:13:00.759-07:00To the title: indeed.
At the same time, I know pe...To the title: indeed.<br /><br />At the same time, I know people just like to complain so someone might seem bitter when they are just ranting.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9179910361309444095.post-82747039409206365732011-08-21T15:41:28.651-07:002011-08-21T15:41:28.651-07:00@Intergratedmemoirs It's become disturbing and...@Intergratedmemoirs It's become disturbing and really disturbing that some bloggers are encouraging this. What does my hating bm add to my life, how does that help me, how does that uplift me? That's my question, that kind of unmitigated hate and disdain is not productive and adds nothing to bw's lives. I wouldn't be worried if folks just were indifferent but the encouraging of hate, just eats at you, does nothing to the other person. I'm sorry my life is too full and good and happy to try to include hate especially for a set of ppl I'm completely not concerned about. I'll say this for any man or woman that dates anyone inter-racially, if they are spewing hate, yea you need to get the hell of outta there. That's not good, love can't grow in all darkness.Flaming_starhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05086586077318735281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9179910361309444095.post-21969728230888615332011-08-20T23:07:27.359-07:002011-08-20T23:07:27.359-07:00It seems like that's mostly what you see in th...It seems like that's mostly what you see in the BWE blogosphere. I was appalaed to see all of the hatred comin from a majority of these women towards Black men. Then I had to realize, "hurt people, hurt people." It still makes no sense, and I stay away from it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9179910361309444095.post-41397127642672518292011-08-14T12:06:22.556-07:002011-08-14T12:06:22.556-07:00@Cheri, yea I may not want to date bm but I don...@Cheri, yea I may not want to date bm but I don't hate them, I don't love them either unless they are my family but the outright hate. I'd be wary of ppl like that, they got too much invested in negativity. <br /><br />@LiquidFrye, THIS! Yes, you have female family members you are going to have to deal with. Do bw really think he's going to be okay with hating his family members for no good reason? And if he is, run girl!Flaming_starhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05086586077318735281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9179910361309444095.post-65906810561457192802011-08-14T08:06:20.378-07:002011-08-14T08:06:20.378-07:00Thank you! As a longtime (15 years married) "...Thank you! As a longtime (15 years married) "swirler" I read some of these BWE blogs and see the posters commenting about how they don't like or trust white women and I'm thinking, then how do you think you're going to deal with this man's mother, sisters, aunts, nieces, cousins, etc? You marry a family when you marry, you don't just get the man.LiquidFyrenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9179910361309444095.post-13663862050401890352011-08-12T11:05:36.152-07:002011-08-12T11:05:36.152-07:00I don't get this either. I may not want to dat...I don't get this either. I may not want to date black men but I do not hate them. It's a difference between dating preference and who can just be a friend. I think some women are licking their wounds and they blame all black men rather than the one black man that is responsible for hurting them. Hell, all rainbeau men can hurt you. That's where vetting comes in.Cherinoreply@blogger.com